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dealing 19 Mar 2011 | 03:31 pm
today when my best friends husband hugged me I cried… like cried… ok now I am crying again. today when my best friend hugged me I cried. today the flood gates are opened up he finally signed the tra...
Bargaining Chip gone bad 14 Mar 2011 | 10:40 am
I am not wanting to slam or go on about him…I just want him to sign the Travel Consent Form for the girls! we leave Saturday to an already paid for trip to Cancun and he is using this need as a bargai...
I’M moving on 12 Mar 2011 | 06:39 am
“I’m Moving On” I’ve dealt with my ghosts and I’ve faced all my demons Finally content with a past I regret I’ve found you find strength in your moments of weakness For once I’m at peace with myse...
verbal diareah post 23 Feb 2011 | 09:15 pm
he took the job. he leaves next month. we had a HUGE fight today. I talked to my lawyer after yet another discussion on child support… I just needed clarification… my lawyer suggested I take a step ba...
feeling 22 Feb 2011 | 08:00 pm
I am tired and not really sure what more to say…which is strange cuz I always have a LOT to say. I am just wanting to keep some sort of diary of all this…however it looks or sounds so that I don’t los...
trying to understand 16 Feb 2011 | 08:38 pm
just when I think things are getting easier things get a little more complicated. who am I kidding though I am living in a complicated situation!! counseling is helping.. so far we have been going ab...
So much to think about 12 Feb 2011 | 10:44 am
The last few days have been much calmer. I have to say that going to the couples counseling has made a bit of a difference. ok it’s made more than a bit of a difference. Our goals right now may not be...
mishmash 7 Feb 2011 | 08:21 pm
Not sure yet what to title this post. Days are mashing together, time goes on, emotions still go up and down and yet I don’t quite feel like I am being smashed against the wall quite so easily. So sin...
1 month in 3 Feb 2011 | 09:37 am
So I have survived a month. I mean the term survived in the very essence that the word represents. As fast as time goes by I feel like at the same time I am moving in slow motion. Nights are the harde...
riding the wave 31 Jan 2011 | 04:45 pm
Tomorrow is the official 1 month anniversary my husband walked out on his/our family. I am so glad that I have started this blog.. I don’t journal very well (my hand cramps with a pen really fast) an...